What Is Sex Therapy In Terms Of Sex Addiction Recovery?
RecoverySoft / September 4, 2018

What is sex therapy? It is a form of psychotherapy. In therapy, people can work with a therapist either on their own or with their spouse or partner. The issues can range from childhood trauma, abuse, neglect or intimacy to sexual concerns such as feelings or function. It is a helpful way for adults, regardless of sexual orientation, age or gender to work through their problems. In particular, sex therapy is an important part of the recovery process for many people who have struggled with sex addiction. In general, sex therapy is conducted by licensed professionals including psychologists, physicians and therapists. CSAT’s, certified sex addiction therapists are best suited to handle the problems of sexually addicted individuals. Other professionals have a specialized expertise in the field of sexual/relationship therapy. A reputable sex therapist will have a graduate degree and credentials through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). People who are struggling with sex addiction will not always be at a point where they are ready for sex therapy. In most cases, sex therapy is meant to be a short-term treatment option. However, the treatment plan for sex therapy is based on the individual. Once a sex…

Regulate Employees’ Activities With Computer Monitoring Tools
RecoverySoft / July 10, 2018

As this is an era of computerization and modernization, every single user is acquainted with the use of computer and internet. Today, computer is most popularly used by millions of users around the world regardless of their age and profession. Children and teenage students can get involved in watching vulnerable sites or accessing porn videos which they are not supposed to do. In addition, employees working in an organization may indulge themselves in non- business operations which may affect the overall productivity of the organization and degrade the employees’ efficiency. In order to maintain the positive workflow of the organization, there is a need of some mechanism which can monitor the daily activities happened in the computers. Looking at the need, computer monitoring tools come into practice which are used for monitoring all desktop activities around a network. The computer monitoring tool helps system administrators, managers, parents and couples to know about the activities of the persons working with the computer. Admin personnel can easily keep a close eye on the employees’ activities through this tool which acts as the surveillance camera. Parents who share the same PC with their kids can catch their children’s activities and warn them if…

3 Sex Skills You MUST Master (If You Want Awesome Orgasms)
RecoverySoft / May 8, 2018

There’s “sex”, and then there’s “SEX!” We’ve all had plain old missionary style sex that gets to be bore over the years. If you are just having standard, boring sex then you are really missing out on the real orgasmic pleasures of true mind blowing sex. If you want to experience awesome orgasms, you just need to follow these 3 sex skills: 1. Long Lasting Sex. This must be mentioned first because it’s a HUGE reason why women, and men, experience either no orgasms at all, or else very lousy and weak orgasms. Obviously this most often falls on the man. The man needs to learn to last long during sex and not experience the ever so common problem of premature ejaculation. This is a sex skill you simply have to learn if you want to give your partner incredible orgasms. And if you are suffering from premature ejaculation then your own orgasm is WEAK. Quick ejaculation orgasms are simply not as strong as those which take longer to achieve. In order to last long during sex you have to learn some physical exercises and some mental breathing techniques to calm the mind and not get it overexcited (which is…

3 Sex Skills You MUST Master (If You Want Awesome Orgasms)
RecoverySoft / May 6, 2018

There’s “sex”, and then there’s “SEX!” We’ve all had plain old missionary style sex that gets to be bore over the years. If you are just having standard, boring sex then you are really missing out on the real orgasmic pleasures of true mind blowing sex. If you want to experience awesome orgasms, you just need to follow these 3 sex skills: 1. Long Lasting Sex. This must be mentioned first because it’s a HUGE reason why women, and men, experience either no orgasms at all, or else very lousy and weak orgasms. Obviously this most often falls on the man. The man needs to learn to last long during sex and not experience the ever so common problem of premature ejaculation. This is a sex skill you simply have to learn if you want to give your partner incredible orgasms. And if you are suffering from premature ejaculation then your own orgasm is WEAK. Quick ejaculation orgasms are simply not as strong as those which take longer to achieve. In order to last long during sex you have to learn some physical exercises and some mental breathing techniques to calm the mind and not get it overexcited (which is…

3 Sex Skills You MUST Master (If You Want Awesome Orgasms)
RecoverySoft / April 13, 2018

There’s “sex”, and then there’s “SEX!” We’ve all had plain old missionary style sex that gets to be bore over the years. If you are just having standard, boring sex then you are really missing out on the real orgasmic pleasures of true mind blowing sex. If you want to experience awesome orgasms, you just need to follow these 3 sex skills: 1. Long Lasting Sex. This must be mentioned first because it’s a HUGE reason why women, and men, experience either no orgasms at all, or else very lousy and weak orgasms. Obviously this most often falls on the man. The man needs to learn to last long during sex and not experience the ever so common problem of premature ejaculation. This is a sex skill you simply have to learn if you want to give your partner incredible orgasms. And if you are suffering from premature ejaculation then your own orgasm is WEAK. Quick ejaculation orgasms are simply not as strong as those which take longer to achieve. In order to last long during sex you have to learn some physical exercises and some mental breathing techniques to calm the mind and not get it overexcited (which is…

3 Sex Skills You MUST Master (If You Want Awesome Orgasms)
RecoverySoft / April 11, 2018

There’s “sex”, and then there’s “SEX!” We’ve all had plain old missionary style sex that gets to be bore over the years. If you are just having standard, boring sex then you are really missing out on the real orgasmic pleasures of true mind blowing sex. If you want to experience awesome orgasms, you just need to follow these 3 sex skills: 1. Long Lasting Sex. This must be mentioned first because it’s a HUGE reason why women, and men, experience either no orgasms at all, or else very lousy and weak orgasms. Obviously this most often falls on the man. The man needs to learn to last long during sex and not experience the ever so common problem of premature ejaculation. This is a sex skill you simply have to learn if you want to give your partner incredible orgasms. And if you are suffering from premature ejaculation then your own orgasm is WEAK. Quick ejaculation orgasms are simply not as strong as those which take longer to achieve. In order to last long during sex you have to learn some physical exercises and some mental breathing techniques to calm the mind and not get it overexcited (which is…

Recovery of a Sex and Porn Addict With the Help of Their Spouse
RecoverySoft / March 27, 2018

In my 20 years of dealing with sex addiction and porn addiction, I have recently realized that the chances of success are exponentially improved if the partner of the addict is included in the therapy and recovery process. This is especially true if one or both of them get into 12 step recovery. The addicts that bring in there partner seems to be recovering at a ratio of 5 to one. There are also meetings where the couple can recover together. Those addicts that bring in their partner stay sober at a rate of 5 to 1. Some of the reasons seem to be: – The Partner shows great commitment to the relationship if they agree to be in conjoint therapy. – They are able to hold their partner more accountable than the counselor or therapist. – They are able to remind the addict that even though the addict is making changes, it will take a long time to regain trust. The addict should not expect a lot acknowledgment for the first steps that they take. The addict commonly says: I do not understand why she / he is not accepting more, it has been a month. It may be…

The 12 Steps To Recovery From Sex Addiction
RecoverySoft / March 19, 2018

Recovering from a sex addiction requires adhering to a 12 step program. Such programs have become synonymous with people’s efforts to change their lives and behaviors, and have been applied to everything including over-eating, sex, compulsive gambling, and drug addiction. The original 12 step program was published by Alcoholics Anonymous in the late 1930s to treat addiction to alcohol. Since then, it has been adapted and directed towards other forms of addiction and compulsive behaviors and has been recognized by the American Psychological Foundation. Small details within each 12 step program change depending on what’s being treated, but all follow the same template. While there is debate on what defines addiction, many agree that the brain becomes dependent on chemicals either imbibed (alcohol) or produced naturally through a behavior, such as sex or gambling. The 12 Steps: Step one is the sex addict admitting they have no power over their sex addiction and that their lives have gotten out of control. This step essentially defines a sex addiction, a situation where a person no longer can control their sexual behavior despite it causing them problems. This may sound facetious, but if a sex addict could control their behavior, they would…

Recovery of a Sex and Porn Addict With the Help of Their Spouse
RecoverySoft / March 19, 2018

In my 20 years of dealing with sex addiction and porn addiction, I have recently realized that the chances of success are exponentially improved if the partner of the addict is included in the therapy and recovery process. This is especially true if one or both of them get into 12 step recovery. The addicts that bring in there partner seems to be recovering at a ratio of 5 to one. There are also meetings where the couple can recover together. Those addicts that bring in their partner stay sober at a rate of 5 to 1. Some of the reasons seem to be: – The Partner shows great commitment to the relationship if they agree to be in conjoint therapy. – They are able to hold their partner more accountable than the counselor or therapist. – They are able to remind the addict that even though the addict is making changes, it will take a long time to regain trust. The addict should not expect a lot acknowledgment for the first steps that they take. The addict commonly says: I do not understand why she / he is not accepting more, it has been a month. It may be…

Recovery of a Sex and Porn Addict With the Help of Their Spouse
RecoverySoft / March 15, 2018

In my 20 years of dealing with sex addiction and porn addiction, I have recently realized that the chances of success are exponentially improved if the partner of the addict is included in the therapy and recovery process. This is especially true if one or both of them get into 12 step recovery. The addicts that bring in there partner seems to be recovering at a ratio of 5 to one. There are also meetings where the couple can recover together. Those addicts that bring in their partner stay sober at a rate of 5 to 1. Some of the reasons seem to be: – The Partner shows great commitment to the relationship if they agree to be in conjoint therapy. – They are able to hold their partner more accountable than the counselor or therapist. – They are able to remind the addict that even though the addict is making changes, it will take a long time to regain trust. The addict should not expect a lot acknowledgment for the first steps that they take. The addict commonly says: I do not understand why she / he is not accepting more, it has been a month. It may be…