Healing Through Recovery

April 16, 2018

The Orb.

I often wonder if I would ever be able to forgive my wife for her actions while she was actively drinking. I could not conceive ever trusting her again – not after the barrage of lies and deception that goes along with active alcoholism.

How could she do this to our family? To her children? To me !?

My wife was in and out of recovery programs with limited success. I would push, she would go – relapse. Repeat cycle. My wife finally hit bottom on our son's birthday – she was unconscious when I called the ambulance and was in the ICU for 3 days.

I had hit my bottom as well – and filed for divorce. I did not think I could have gotten the damage.

My wife entered an in-patient program, without my help, and left a new person – she had connected with her Higher Power and turned over her will and her life. She had finally come to believe that she was an alcoholic, no better no worse, an alcoholic.

It was during the early stages of my wife's recovery that I realized I needed help as well. I could not understand how my wife could be so happy – was not she aware of all the pain that had been caused? The damage to our relationship and our family? She was aware, but unlike me, she was able to turn her will and her life over to God.

As I saw my wife grow in recovery, my respect for her and support system grew as well. I started attending Al-anon November 25, 2005, and I was able to let go and turn my will and life over to my Higher Power.

The trust I never thought would come back returned. The pain I never thought would go away stayed.

Living in recovery, both of us working our own programs and letting go, has allowed our family to stay intact. For that I am grateful.

33 Comments

  • Anwaredin Beshir April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    Someone help me with cert for this model please ??? J320P

  • HAV0X April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    twrp is not working for me

  • Dathidewolf April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    i dont have a sd cArd tho

  • WeedMau5 YT April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    it says verification signature failed when installing the update plz help

  • ruber perdomo April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    thanks bro

  • Santiago Puugbo April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    when i do it it says it fails

  • LaurPvP ' April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    its cant remove the garantie?

  • Benner Droid April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    Funciona en j3 sm-j320vpp?

  • Megan Megan April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    have Galaxy J3 2016 SM-J320Y With Twrp Recovery & SuperSu official sir?? please give me link boss?? tnx alot

  • MOHAMMAD SAJID April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    PHONE STUCK ON LOGO AND RESTART AGAIN AND AGAIN

  • MOHAMMAD SAJID April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    DID NOT WORKK 100% SURE IAHVE TRIED

  • Dj Jinx777 April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    Hey, thank you for helping me out… even though my phone is stuck on Boot loop (Set Warranty Bit: Kernel) lmao (Still, thank you)

  • Frosty Modz April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    lick my balls it works

  • twerk boner April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    Will the TWRP keep installed and functional even after the first time of recovery?

  • Oscar Evolution X April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    hola gracias vi casi 30 estupidos video pero el tuyo funciono en 4 segundo gracias men me ayudaste mucho a rotear el celular y algo eres el.primero que en toda mi vida le pongo un mensaje aqui

  • Nick Ticu April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    I was here just to know how to put an android rom

  • Tobey April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    Followed all instructions, but can't get TWRP to stick/install.
    "Android system recovery <3e> LMY47X.J320PVPS1AQG3" appears in recovery screen.
    Prior to that is a "no command" error message and a dead android with red triangle.

  • Ammly Fredrick April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    Any Roms for this phone? Other than Stock.

  • D Devil April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    it not work

  • Yoobani Vasquez April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    it says Fail…. why???

  • unitcount503 April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    ive did this and still with octoplus box unable to unlock, message unlocked sucessfull but the invalid sim,message and this root only made matter worst if your trying to unlock this phone is gsm i read alot of people that gave up and claimed it was not, i alsmost gave up too but i found a service on ebay http://www.ebay.com/itm/252514900460?_trksid=p2057872.m2749.l2649&ssPageName=STRK%3AMEBIDX%3AIT
    dont root it this guy will remote access your phone and unlock it with out root.

  • unitcount503 April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    i put it in the sd card and wont detect in recovery supersu

  • ZeldaCrasher April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    does this mess up data plan

  • Mani Dhanush April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    Hi Bro Im Rootes samsung j320G successfully but how to uptade 6.0 version or Nougat version

  • Booga Mobin April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    can this work on j327p?

  • Robot Banana April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    how to root sm-j320n0?

  • RICO BIJKERK April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    i hope to find something that works i never root a phone in my live and i got the tough one 5.1.1 lolliepop my s4 (both samsung a galaxy j3 and galaxy s4 4.0.1 android i dont care how with pc/laptop ore without i think easier on pc the power from the pc. if it works the j3 to root this way 1rst time got to try

  • armando cruz April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    de casualidad tendras un backup de tu j3

    i need backup please

  • A E S T H E T I C S April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    Can you still root J320P without computer?

  • Hacker Jarves April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    sir plz tell me how i flash trwp in j320F

    i have try to flash twrp
    odin show sucess but when i opem trwp mode
    thats not open
    nd recovey mode id open.
    sir plz help me ????

  • Miroslav Rosenov April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    how to fix FAIL !

  • Josean De Jesus Acevedo April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    Is this harmful for my current phone plan such as messing up my Mobile Data, etc.?

  • FuBi0 April 16, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    Did all this. Beats Audio installer is granted permissions and still says "No Root"…

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